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Managers' Forum #4

(This article originally appeared in Computerworld USA.)

I hope this monthly column will provide a lively exchange of ideas with IT managers. I'll do my best to answer your questions, and if you care to respond, we'll run your comments alongside. Please send your questions, comments and critiques to me at pglen@c2-consulting.com.

Q: How do you manage your sponsors when you have three different sponsors who have varied, often competing views of where a project should go?

A: If you've got three sponsors, you don't have a sponsor. It's like saying you've got three first priorities. Just as there can be only one first priority, there can be only one sponsor.

In your case, what you probably have, in fact, is a disorganized steering committee that never meets and doesn't have anyone in charge. As you've already figured out, that's not a recipe for success. It's the makings for gridlock, politics and resistance.

As an IT person, you're going to find it rather difficult to manage the competing views of differing business people with different interests.

What you need to do is recruit a primary sponsor from the business side and make that person responsible for forging consensus among all the business stakeholders. Let the business people work together to debate and balance the various political interests. They are in a better position than you are to facilitate these important political situations.

You then can take responsibility for forging the consensus among the technical stakeholders (e.g., architecture, development, quality assurance, deployment, networking, operations, project management office and support) and coordinating the meetings among the technical people. Together, you and the business sponsor can manage the negotiating process and work on gaining agreement on goals, process, product and constraints.

Q: I have a situation where I have lost all professional respect for my manager. She is a very nice person but takes advice from her best friend, who is another manager here. We can't implement any policy or process without her running to her friend to check it out. It appears that her friend is taking advantage of this by doing whatever he wants. Any advice?

A: It sounds like you have at least three problems here: 1) your manager's behavior, 2) your manager's friend taking advantage of her and 3) your loss of respect for her.

Let's dispense with the easy one first, No. 2. Forget about doing anything about your manager's friend unless he's doing something patently illegal, demonstrably immoral or dangerously unethical. If he is, then consider going to your human resources representative or corporate counsel.

As for No. 3, try to cut your manager a bit of slack. She's probably not the bozo that you think that she is. Being a boss is a tougher and lonelier job than you probably realize. Resist the urge to judge her so quickly. You'll always have the opportunity to do that later. And if you're going to be of help, judging will be an impediment.

Now for the tough problem, No. 1. As for your manager's behavior, it would help to know why she is going to her friend for so much advice. What is driving her to seek out such detailed counsel? Does she really respect the opinion of her friend? Is she afraid of her boss? Is she new to her job? Is she concerned about the judgments of her subordinates? Did she make a really bad mistake recently that she's eager to avoid repeating? Is she up for a major promotion or overly cautious by nature? For some reason, she probably feels insecure or overly tentative about her position, her knowledge of the position or her political strength.

Chances are that if you think carefully about the situation, she has some good reason for feeling and acting this way and is using her friend as a crutch.

From the way you stated your question, I'm assuming that you like your boss, harbor no ill feelings toward her and would like to help her -- and you -- to be successful.

Once you come up with a reasonable theory about what's driving this behavior, you'll be in a better position to help.

Your goal should be to get into the loop before she announces any new policies she and her friend have dreamed up. You want to become her trusted adviser. You may not be able to stop her from seeking advice from her friend, but you may be able to become a better source of help.

But you can do this only if you really understand why your manager is doing what she's doing. Next time she comes up with one of these new policies that you feel is wrongheaded, go to her office and initiate a private conversation. Honestly seek to better understand her thinking behind the policy. Don't issue any objections or opinions. Don't challenge her or be aggressive or threatening. Just ask and listen carefully and sympathetically.

Once you get an answer that makes sense, you'll be in a position to demonstrate your understanding of and empathy for her challenges. For example, if she says that the policy is meant to avoid miscommunication between departments, you can ask her, "Is this a response to your boss's recent tirade over the missed connection between departments?"

If you become a better adviser than her friend is, you may be able to save her bacon, and yours.

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